Vetting by the Adolescent Relationship Commission

Allowing myself to experience what I felt yesterday has made today wonderful.  I awoke, took a shower, chased silly negative, self-defeating and poisoning thoughts out of my head and went on a search… Continue reading

The day’s requirings

I will get out of bed today. I will be grateful for what I have and not envious for what I lack. I will laugh at my dog and his humanesque traits. I… Continue reading

"Life is a journey, not a destination"

 I wish that forgiveness was a once and done thing, but it’s not.  It’s a choice you have to make daily and somedays are easier than others…some people are easier to forgive than… Continue reading

Femininity my ass

Hold the mutha effin phone. I’ve been browsing the internet ( I should get my behind out of bed to tell you the truth) when I found this blog.  It’s a bunch of… Continue reading


Feast and famine are first cousins. There was Ricardo. We went on one date and I couldn’t bring myself to go out again.  I just didn’t get the right vibe.  I felt like… Continue reading

Be still biznatch

“No.” That’s essentially what I’ve told God. He’s told me be still and I’ve pretty much screamed “No” like a defiant toddler. Occasionally I’ll say “Eh, maybe…alright but only this once.” But seldom… Continue reading

I am the umpire

I called it: They’re engaged. My friends all called me to make sure that I knew before I came blindly into work; I’m grateful for my friends. I feel badly for her. I… Continue reading


I haven’t thought about him for awhile. He began dating another — a friend, and that hurt for a long time. But now, I’m at a place where I 1) don’t think of… Continue reading

Make believe

I had a great day today. I didn’t do things as a reaction to him. I didn’t long for him and what we had, could’ve had, or should’ve had. I didn’t hate him… Continue reading

a difference

I’m at a different place right now. Although the same is true literally, that is not the context in which I speak. We, he and I, had a conversation last night that scared… Continue reading